On The Borderline/ Mental Health

You have every right not to tolerate people that have treated you badly or that have made you doubt your self worth.

I wish I'd have learnt this sooner. Seems, I have had misplaced loyalties. I have been having issues with my relationships with other, some are unhealthy or toxic relationships, and some just need more boundaries. I'm trying to work out the best way to move forward with my life, cut out the negative and surround… Continue reading You have every right not to tolerate people that have treated you badly or that have made you doubt your self worth.

On The Borderline/ Mental Health

Pregnancy and BPD. It’s Not All Shits And Giggles (Prenatal Psychosis)

Last year I went through lots of tests and procedures in hospital, myself and my partner were then referred to a fertility clinic because I was told I had problems with my Fallopian tubes, because they were badly damaged and I had some other problems that were causing me a lot of pain. At one… Continue reading Pregnancy and BPD. It’s Not All Shits And Giggles (Prenatal Psychosis)

On The Borderline/ Mental Health

Not everything that is faced can be changed, But nothing can be changed until its faced.

It's been a bittersweet month, I have had the saddest couple of weeks and the happiest, it's a roller-coaster. I feel like what I can only relate to as a grieving process and it's been exceptionally hard for me, although I have my partner and people around me I feel isolated, alone & misunderstood by  the… Continue reading Not everything that is faced can be changed, But nothing can be changed until its faced.

Bits and bobs

Today, I’m surviving.

I havent wrote for a while, but I feel like I need to get this out as part of me moving on from this episode. I have had an awful week, it just isn't getting any better. there is so much going on around me, really stressful things in my life. Money, friends, career, family… Continue reading Today, I’m surviving.

Sex & Relationships

7 Types Of Annoying Facebook Couples..Are You One Of Them?

We're so happy you found that special person to share your life with, it's not easy and not everyone is as lucky as you. Its lovely to hear your getting on well and to know that your relationship is so perfect.. But seriously, give it a rest. Sometimes you love something so much you want… Continue reading 7 Types Of Annoying Facebook Couples..Are You One Of Them?

Sex & Relationships

Swinging; Are You Interested? Could You Do It? Do You Indulge?

Last night I watched an interesting documentary on swinging (Also known as partner swapping, wife swapping) I was fascinated to find that there are many different reasons people choose to take part in these activities. Some people are just curious and keen to explore to find out what all the fuss is about, some looking to experience new… Continue reading Swinging; Are You Interested? Could You Do It? Do You Indulge?

Sex & Relationships

Pimping Your Online Dating Profile? Examples Of What To & What Not To Write In Your Profile.

First of all take a look at a recent post I wrote How to Write The Perfect Profile And Things You Need To Know  For those of you that are totally clueless, I have done some snooping and found some examples of the good, the bad and the avoid like the plague. p.s I know some… Continue reading Pimping Your Online Dating Profile? Examples Of What To & What Not To Write In Your Profile.

Sex & Relationships

Why I Choose Not To Settle For Anything Less Than Butterflies…. What I Want In A Man.

I have been pondering over this post for quite some time after a conversations with friends about my idea of a 'perfect guy' and after being asked why I am single? Truth is, I see my friends in and out of bad relationships & settling for someone just because they are desperate to settle down...I… Continue reading Why I Choose Not To Settle For Anything Less Than Butterflies…. What I Want In A Man.

On The Borderline/ Mental Health

Domestic Violence: My Story

  I wanted to share this story with you, its my story about the domestic abuse I was subjected to for 4 years of my teen to adult life. I suppose its good to post about something that's closer to home, rather than shoving pretty things in your face all the time, because life isn't pretty all the time.   Not… Continue reading Domestic Violence: My Story

Sex & Relationships

Online Dating; How To Write The Perfect Profile And Things You Need To Know

Make an online dating profile that delivers a match! Be smart and specific, with honest information. More and more relationships have gotten their start through matches made on online dating sites. What's the secret to writing a great online dating profile that delivers positive results? Know the type of person you want to attract You… Continue reading Online Dating; How To Write The Perfect Profile And Things You Need To Know